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WHY SOCIETY ALWAYS BLAME A GIRL?

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Because in our Indian society, since childhood

  • boys are allowed to do what they want but girls are not even not allowed to study.
  • They are taught that they can do anything they want but girls can’t but the reality is that girls are leading in various sectors.
  • Everyone is taught that in indian society is male dominating society but it is not.
  • Boys are taught that girls are weak and they can treat them however they like.
  • People in India worship goddess like KALI, DURGA, GANGA etc but they don’t worship in reality. They see them as a material which is used and thrown away.
  • Boys can go anywhere with their friends or girlfriends but girls are not allowed as this will ruin family reputation.
  • When a rape is there, everyone blame girls for being outside home till late night and her dress but no one will say a word to boys that what they did was wrong.
  • Mentality of people is so bad that they judge a girl by her cloths, her friends. If a girl is with 4–5 friend(boys) she will be seen as a slut. But if a boy is with many girls he will be a stud.
  • None of family member teach their boy child to respect girl. They don’t teach them that they too have a sister who is a girl.
  • New generation is so obsessed with drinking, smoking and sex that they don’t even think about anybody’s life. They give importance to materialistic things, not to their life and family.
  • Everyone is adopting western culture but they are not adopting the broad minded thinking that western people have.

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It takes courage to take your stand when someone is blaming you wrongly.

It takes you a feeling that it’s okay to be frowned, beaten, or looked down upon but not being blamed wrongly.

It’s not that always someone’s blaming the woman.

Sometimes some idiot bigwig even takes sides with the actual proven rapists saying “Ladke hai.. Galti Ho jati hai inse”..

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How can we expect Her to speak out then!
And until she speaks her side, she’d remain an easy victim.. 😦

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Not Enough Time

The time we had, Dad, Wasn’t nearly enough

To pack in an entire Lifetime of love.

There are so many questions.
That I need answers to,
But now that you’re gone
There’s no way to ask you.

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But there are still photos

To remember you by,

Each time I look at them,

I still want to cry.

They say grief is easier

to bear as time goes by,

But they doesn’t stop me

from wondering why?

Why my dear, sweet dad

Was taken so soon,

When he was my guiding star,

My sun and my moon.

There are no answers

To a question like this,

So I’ll cherish your memory,

And mourn the years we’ll miss.

 

“A daughter needs a dad to be the

standard against which she sill judge

all men.”

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Mother Hood Is Priceless <3

This Is Priceless.  Motherhood Is Most beautiful thing to women. 

This is what Mothers go Through… Stretchmarks, Pain, Shapeless body, Flappy Tummy.

Some of us use Push Up Bras to look sexy but when we go to the bathroom, we look towards our naked body and we see the real ME, that we have an ability to reproduce a Human Being.

Women, Please Love your Body, Love your Inner Soul.

Men, Learn to love your wife. You will never understand the pain which a woman goes through during her motherhood days. All that a women needs are love and no cheat towards her love. Some Men don’t even care whether she has eaten or not, whereas some men spend more on their girlfriends abundantly forgetting that they have a nursing wife at home.

Some men even have guts to say that she is not a woman because she gave birth to their child through CS. Whereas the women who go through CS, has taken a lot of pains, she has to deny her food for next 3 days.  She can’t have proper food for a month.

Men, no matter the method of Delivery be, treat your women has Queen.

For a mother and a child to come out ALIVE is by God’s Grace.

Learn to Respect Women. 

 

“THE NATURAL STATE OF MOTHERHOOD IS UNSELFISHNESS”

 

#saynotoviolence #respectwomen #women #respect #labour #delivery #child #priceless #love  #pregnancy

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Mother: You are more Precious than Jewels

She gave life. She is a wife.
She is a mother and she is a friend.
She is a sister, a survivor ’til the end.

Appreciate her, we don’t dare.
Ask her worries, we don’t care.
Wipe away her tears, they are invisible as air.

She works, cooks, and cleans.
She laughs, helps comfort, and hides her pain.
When you struggle, she pulls you through.

All this is her, and what do we do?
Complain and create a mess,
Provide stress and leave her feeling depressed,
Push her away and ignore her advice,
Tell her she is nothing without thinking twice.

She swallows her pride, put her feelings aside.
Does as you need in order for you to be free.
Ignores your ignorance and tolerates your flaws.
You call her names, but
She answers with pride, dignity, and a complete loss of self.
You call her nothing.
I call her Strong, Smart, Sensual, Caring, Giving, Surviving, Tolerant and powerful.
I call her WOMAN!

 “If you can’t go back to your mother’s womb, you’d better learn to be a good fighter.”
― Anchee Min, Red Azalea

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You are The Choices that You Make :)

“We Need to Understand, That there is no formula 

for how women should lead their life. 

That is why we must respect their choices

that each women makes for herself and her family.

Every women Deserves a chance To Realize 

her God Given Potential. “

Why Life is so unfair towards girls??

Why people around doesn’t think about the girls perspectives?

Decision Has its own role In everyone’s life.

Why Girls should marry a guy, just because of the family reputation?

If the girl wants to go ahead with her career?

Isn’t it is family’s responsibility to ask her girl whether is she interested in marriage or no?

 

 

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I am the Catalayst to my own Happiness

NO,

I don’t Care what you think about me, my Life, My Decisions, or How I Look.

Because Its My Life, My Choices, My Mistakes and My Lessons.

Mind your own Problems Before you talk About Mine,

Because My Life is not your story to tell.

And So now i Will do What’s Best for ME!!!

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Her Love <3

 

Her love is overwhelming,
Terrifying, even

She knows things, people,
Feels them to her marrow

Her love wraps around them,
Folding upon itself within her,
Taking up so much space inside,
She sometimes feel as though
She needs to hide from it,
That life and love ask
Far too much of her

Sometimes, the love is so tight inside,
She isn’t sure she can endure it,
So she tries to find a way to escape it,
Just for a while

But the things she needs
To do for herself,
In order to rest her heart and mind,
Hurt the people she loves

Her survival sometimes means
Hurting the people she loves,
Not because she doesn’t love them

But because she loves them too much.