If You’re Searching Yourself For A Purpose, Ask Yourself These Questions!

We are all searching ourselves for a purpose, a career or a life that really matter. So if you feel stuck, trapped or hopeless—if you want more—ask yourself these five questions to get your life back on track:

1. Why am I here?

Seriously.

Right now, whatever coffee shop, classroom, cubicle or conference room you might be sitting in, why are you here?

  • What brought me to this moment?
  • What strengths, personality, creativity and talent do I have at my disposal?
  • Without placing blame or making some sort of rationalization, what the heck am I doing with my life today?

2. What is my story?

Stories are powerful, regardless of whether they are true. They give you a narrative to live by and life lessons to pass on, that shape the person you are becoming.

One of the reasons you might be experiencing unrest and frustration in life today is that you might not have a better story shaping your life.

You need a heroic narrative. A story that calls out your best and highest self.

A big part of this is learning how to let go of past guilt and regret, and to start living your life with conviction. You cannot change your past, but you can create a better future. Today is a new day with new opportunities, so start living a better story.  Live with a deeper sense of responsibility with the amazing talents, genius and strengths you have been given.

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3. Who do I need?

Investing in the right relationships and surrounding yourself with the right people is crucial to your success. It sounds a bit harsh, but there are some necessary endings that you need to embrace—friends who are not really friends, people who suck the life out of you.

  • Who in my life is holding me back from becoming my best self?
  • Who do I need to ask for help?
  • Do I have any honest voices in my life?

4. What is at stake?

  • What upsets me about the world today?
  • What frustrates me?
  • What problem do I want to solve?

These are clues to your calling. Windows into your soul. Why? What frustrates you reveals what you care about most. The only way to live life with passion is to discover, name and fight for what matters most to you.

5. How can I help?

In layman’s terms, your life can impact and influence others in meaningful ways. Even small ways. A smile, a hug, a thank you, a high-five, eye contact, an email or kind word. All energy transferring in the form of hope from you to another. How beautiful is that?

But you have to start. Commit to serve someone else in some small way. Give more than you take. Listen more than you talk. Write an email or letter of encouragement to someone who has helped you. Get your focus off yourself and onto others.

I guarantee you will surprise yourself with how good it feels to fight for something that matters. For someone who needs your help.

The girls voice to society

​A guy with whom she was been engaged, forcefully by her family members.

The guy who tried to show different faces in-front of everyone.

The guy who almost laid the girl to death.

The guy who used to carry acid with him to spill it on the girl.

The guy who used to treat the girl very badly.

The guy who only needed was sex.

The guy who cant listen NO. 

The guy who never wants girl to be according to her own-self.

The guy who never talked about what she needed in her life.

The guy who was right for her (according to her family members).

The guy who cant do this stuff according to her family members.

The guy was always right according to her family members.

Did anyone ask what about girl?

Did anyone ask what exactly happened with her?

Did anyone ask what was she going through in such engaged life?

Did anyone ask what was her goals in her life?

The answer is: 

No! No! No!

No one asked..

Because for everyone the guy is always right!

Everyone saw the girl changed, the girls behavior changed, the girl doesn’t talk to anyone properly, the girl avoid everyone!!

But no one asked her what was she going through!

No one saw her Tears!

No one saw the sadness and emotions behind her rudeness!

Not Enough Time

The time we had, Dad, Wasn’t nearly enough

To pack in an entire Lifetime of love.

There are so many questions.
That I need answers to,
But now that you’re gone
There’s no way to ask you.

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But there are still photos

To remember you by,

Each time I look at them,

I still want to cry.

They say grief is easier

to bear as time goes by,

But they doesn’t stop me

from wondering why?

Why my dear, sweet dad

Was taken so soon,

When he was my guiding star,

My sun and my moon.

There are no answers

To a question like this,

So I’ll cherish your memory,

And mourn the years we’ll miss.

 

“A daughter needs a dad to be the

standard against which she sill judge

all men.”

Mother Hood Is Priceless <3

This Is Priceless.  Motherhood Is Most beautiful thing to women. 

This is what Mothers go Through… Stretchmarks, Pain, Shapeless body, Flappy Tummy.

Some of us use Push Up Bras to look sexy but when we go to the bathroom, we look towards our naked body and we see the real ME, that we have an ability to reproduce a Human Being.

Women, Please Love your Body, Love your Inner Soul.

Men, Learn to love your wife. You will never understand the pain which a woman goes through during her motherhood days. All that a women needs are love and no cheat towards her love. Some Men don’t even care whether she has eaten or not, whereas some men spend more on their girlfriends abundantly forgetting that they have a nursing wife at home.

Some men even have guts to say that she is not a woman because she gave birth to their child through CS. Whereas the women who go through CS, has taken a lot of pains, she has to deny her food for next 3 days.  She can’t have proper food for a month.

Men, no matter the method of Delivery be, treat your women has Queen.

For a mother and a child to come out ALIVE is by God’s Grace.

Learn to Respect Women. 

 

“THE NATURAL STATE OF MOTHERHOOD IS UNSELFISHNESS”

 

#saynotoviolence #respectwomen #women #respect #labour #delivery #child #priceless #love  #pregnancy

I am the Catalayst to my own Happiness

NO,

I don’t Care what you think about me, my Life, My Decisions, or How I Look.

Because Its My Life, My Choices, My Mistakes and My Lessons.

Mind your own Problems Before you talk About Mine,

Because My Life is not your story to tell.

And So now i Will do What’s Best for ME!!!

Her Love <3

 

Her love is overwhelming,
Terrifying, even

She knows things, people,
Feels them to her marrow

Her love wraps around them,
Folding upon itself within her,
Taking up so much space inside,
She sometimes feel as though
She needs to hide from it,
That life and love ask
Far too much of her

Sometimes, the love is so tight inside,
She isn’t sure she can endure it,
So she tries to find a way to escape it,
Just for a while

But the things she needs
To do for herself,
In order to rest her heart and mind,
Hurt the people she loves

Her survival sometimes means
Hurting the people she loves,
Not because she doesn’t love them

But because she loves them too much.

Teens Life

“Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen.”
― Albert Einstein

The Grown Up Ones had already gone from this phrase so called as ” Teenage Life”. Teenagers Lead with Many such problems in their Life as In Emotionally High And Low. They  Go through multiple distractions in their life. At such point of time they expect Adults to be in their own world and shouldn’t interfere in their child’s life.

Their life is changing to a new Phrase And a new journey. They undergo stress, Emotionally low. Their Mood swings each new second as they have changes in their Hormones. They think that they are capable to handle their life journey on their own without any help and guidance of adults.  At one point of time they feel they are happy with their new Life-Zone.

Reviewed some Poll results which teenagers Goes through: As a teen, what issue about your mental health most concerns you?

Response – Count, Percent
Depression/loneliness – 324, 34.2%
Transition into middle school – 8, 0.8%
Transition into high school – 26, 2.7%
Transition into college – 27, 2.8%
Transition to adulthood – 43, 4.5%
Academic stress – 114, 12.0%
Violent relationships and/or bullying – 38, 4.0%
Home environment – 27, 2.8%
Character development – 63, 6.6%
Developing a strong, healthy work ethic – 26, 2.7%
Sexual risk taking – 79, 8.3%
Developing healthy relationships – 106, 11.2%
Managing emotions – 10, 1.1%
Eating or physical activity habits – 1, 0.1%
Self-acceptance – 5, 0.5%
Other – 51, 5.4%

Teenagers goes into multiple problems in their life, whereas their is an misunderstanding between adults that they are irritating with their new behavior changes or they have started been rude. Its just that their should be a mutual understanding between adults and teenagers in such phrase.

“No adolescent ever wants to be understood, which is why they complain about being misunderstood all the time.”  -Stephen Fry, Moab Is My Washpot