Category: Rape

Women always asked for it

Women always asked for it

Women always asked for it.

If she is harassed or abused, the blame is always put on the woman and not the man, the perpetrator of the crime.

Victim blaming and shaming is now a widespread issue in India.

The code is clear for us.

Don’t wear this, don’t say that, dress appropriately, don’t go to a bar, don’t drink.. the rules are laid down for women, and if women don’t play by the rules, they are ‘punished.’

No woman is immune. 

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Through these Points listed below, we throw light upon how women are objectified and made to feel like they aren’t humans.

  1. He forced Himself on her, Despite of her saying No. 
  2. He didn’t even knew her, but he called her an “Item”. 
  3. He leaked her Private photos and now she is too Ashamed to face anyone. 
  4. He got physical with her on their first date, ignoring her disrespect. 
  5. He commented on her post calling her “Whore” and “Slut”. 
  6. The place was crowded and he grabbed her breast at the first opportunity he got. 
  7. They were arguing and suddenly he slapped her. 
  8. He scanned her from head to toe in the metro.  
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I Too Have A Life!

I Too Have A Life!

I Too Eat!

I Too Sleep!

I Breathe The Same Air!

I Too Talk!

I Too Walk!

Even My Heart Beats!

I Too Smile!

I Too Weep!

My Scars To Bleed!

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I Too Want To Try!

I Too Want To Fly!

I Too Stave For Opportunity!

God Made Him!

God Made Her!

The Same God Made Me!

Man

Women

At-least Consider Me As A HUMAN

Before You Sleep With Her!

Before You Sleep With Her!

Before you sleep with her….

You finally got her!
Now she is in your bed.

You help her remove her
cloth!

You have removed your cloth too.

See her curves.

Wow now, you are so hard, and she is
horny too, hey before you sex her, kindly ask
yourself about these 10 things; .

1#. Do you really love her? Yes, I know you like
her buttocks… I know she has big breasts or you
just enjoy rubbing those breasts… I know you like
the way she talks. But do you really love the
person she is?

2#. After sleeping with her, what next? Will you
still love that breasts? Will you still love her
smile?

3#. What if she gets pregnant? Will she face the
world alone or will you stand by her? Are you
ready to stand as a man and say yes! I am
responsible? We both did it, it is our Baby! Or will
you look for excuses?

4#. If she calls to tell you that she is pregnant,
will you tell her to abort it and risk her life or will
you tell her to keep the baby?

5#. Very important, if she gives birth, can you
take care of the baby? Can you meet the
emotional, mental, psychological and financial
demands?

6#. Is she someone you can marry or someone
you just want to sleep with? Imagine if this was
your sister with someone else

7#. If she is good enough for you to sleep with,
why can’t she be good enough to be your wife?

8#. Why can’t you marry her as your wife and
then enjoy all after?

9#. If you sleep with her and leave her. Think
about how sad it will be… Think about the pains
and the sorrows. Imagine if this is done
to your child! .

10# Think about tomorrow. Don’t just think
about today I know you just want to do it! your
hormones are up. .

=> What will happen when
your hormones are down ?????

otherwise???

This Just a piece of Advice for the youth, think or
ask yourself this question before you take the
next step.

The girls voice to society

The girls voice to society

​A guy with whom she was been engaged, forcefully by her family members.

The guy who tried to show different faces in-front of everyone.

The guy who almost laid the girl to death.

The guy who used to carry acid with him to spill it on the girl.

The guy who used to treat the girl very badly.

The guy who only needed was sex.

The guy who cant listen NO. 

The guy who never wants girl to be according to her own-self.

The guy who never talked about what she needed in her life.

The guy who was right for her (according to her family members).

The guy who cant do this stuff according to her family members.

The guy was always right according to her family members.

Did anyone ask what about girl?

Did anyone ask what exactly happened with her?

Did anyone ask what was she going through in such engaged life?

Did anyone ask what was her goals in her life?

The answer is: 

No! No! No!

No one asked..

Because for everyone the guy is always right!

Everyone saw the girl changed, the girls behavior changed, the girl doesn’t talk to anyone properly, the girl avoid everyone!!

But no one asked her what was she going through!

No one saw her Tears!

No one saw the sadness and emotions behind her rudeness!

WHY SOCIETY ALWAYS BLAME A GIRL?

WHY SOCIETY ALWAYS BLAME A GIRL?

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Because in our Indian society, since childhood

  • boys are allowed to do what they want but girls are not even not allowed to study.
  • They are taught that they can do anything they want but girls can’t but the reality is that girls are leading in various sectors.
  • Everyone is taught that in indian society is male dominating society but it is not.
  • Boys are taught that girls are weak and they can treat them however they like.
  • People in India worship goddess like KALI, DURGA, GANGA etc but they don’t worship in reality. They see them as a material which is used and thrown away.
  • Boys can go anywhere with their friends or girlfriends but girls are not allowed as this will ruin family reputation.
  • When a rape is there, everyone blame girls for being outside home till late night and her dress but no one will say a word to boys that what they did was wrong.
  • Mentality of people is so bad that they judge a girl by her cloths, her friends. If a girl is with 4–5 friend(boys) she will be seen as a slut. But if a boy is with many girls he will be a stud.
  • None of family member teach their boy child to respect girl. They don’t teach them that they too have a sister who is a girl.
  • New generation is so obsessed with drinking, smoking and sex that they don’t even think about anybody’s life. They give importance to materialistic things, not to their life and family.
  • Everyone is adopting western culture but they are not adopting the broad minded thinking that western people have.

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It takes courage to take your stand when someone is blaming you wrongly.

It takes you a feeling that it’s okay to be frowned, beaten, or looked down upon but not being blamed wrongly.

It’s not that always someone’s blaming the woman.

Sometimes some idiot bigwig even takes sides with the actual proven rapists saying “Ladke hai.. Galti Ho jati hai inse”..

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How can we expect Her to speak out then!
And until she speaks her side, she’d remain an easy victim.. 😦

25 Everyday Examples of Rape Culture

25 Everyday Examples of Rape Culture

Chances are, as feminists and other liberal-minded people, most of you have heard the phrase “rape culture.”

Perhaps some people truly don’t understand what rape culture is.

After all, if you’re hearing the phrase for the first time, it can be really confusing.

We understand the word “culture,” from a sociological or anthropological viewpoint, to be things that people commonly engage in together as a society (ranging from the arts to education to table manners), and we find it difficult to link the word “rape” in with that concept.

We know that at its core, our society is not something that outwardly promotes rape, as the phrase could imply. That is, we don’t, after all, “commonly engage” in sexual violence “together as a society.”

To understand rape culture better, first we need to understand that it’s not necessarily a society or group of people that outwardly promotes rape (although it could be).

When we talk about rape culture, we’re discussing something more implicit than that. We’re talking about cultural practices (that, yes, we commonly engage in together as a society) that excuse or otherwise tolerate sexual violence.

We’re talking about the way that we collectively think about rape.

More often than not, it’s situations in which sexual assault, rape, and general violence are ignored, trivialized, normalized, or made into jokes.

And this happens a lot.

All the time.

Every day.

And it’s dangerous in that it is counterproductive to eliminating sexual violence from society.

So what, exactly, does rape culture look like? How does it present itself?

Well, to see what I’m referring to, take a look at the examples below.

Because if we don’t understand the meaning behind the concept of rape culture, or if we have a skewed interpretation of the meaning in our minds, we may find it easy to deny its existence.

And you may think that some of these examples are isolated, one-off situations. But in reality, they’re part of a larger societal trend.

That is rape culture.

Rape Culture Is…

1. A university in Canada that allows the following student orientation chant: “Y is for your sister. O is for oh-so-tight. U is for underage. N is for no consent. G is for grab that ass.”

2. Pop music that tells women “you know you want it” because of these “blurred lines” (of consent).

3. A judge who sentenced only 30 days in jail to a 50-year-old man who raped a 14-year-old girl (who later committed suicide), and defended that the girl was “older than her chronological age

4. Mothers who blame girls for posting sexy selfies and leading their sons into sin, instead of talking with their sons about their responsibility for their own sexual expression.

5. Photo memes like this:

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6. Supporting athletes who are charged with rape and calling their victims career-destroyers.

7. Companies that create decals of a woman bound and gagged in order to “promote their business.”

8. People who believe that girls “allow themselves to be raped.”

9. Journalists who substitute the word “sex” for “rape” – as if they’re the same thing.

10. Politicians distinguishing legitimate rape” and stating that rape is “something that God intended to happen,” among other horrendous claims.

11. Calling college students who have the courage to report their rapes liars.

12. The ubiquity of street harassment – and how victims are told that they’re “overreacting” when they call it out.

13. Victims not being taken seriously when they report rapes to their university campuses.

14. Rape jokes – and people who defend them.

15. Sexual assault prevention education programs that focus on women being told to take measures to prevent rape instead of men being told not to rape.

16. The victimization of hospital patients, especially people with mental health issues and the elderly,  by the very people who are there to protect them.

17. Reddit threads with titles like “You just have to make sure she’s dead” when linking to the story of a 13-year-old girl in Pakistan being raped and buried alive.

18. Reddit threads dedicated to men causing women pain during sex (I’m not going to give the thread credence by linking to it).

19. Twitter hashtags that support accused rapists and blame victims.

20. Publicly defending celebrities accused of rape just because they’re celebrities and ignoring or denouncing what the victim has to say.

21. Assuming that false reporting for sexual assault cases are the norm, when in reality, they’re only 2-8%, which is on par with grand theft auto.

22. Only 3% of rapists ever serving a day in jail.

23. Women feeling less safe walking the streets at night than men do.

24. 1-in-5 women and 1-in-71 men having reported experiencing rape.

25. The fact that we have to condition ourselves not to use violent language in our everyday conversations.

And the list could go on.

Because examples of rape culture are all around us. They permeate our society at individual, one-on-one levels, as well as in institutionalized, structured ways. That is, after all, exactly how oppression works.

I hope that after reading through the above examples, you have a clearer understanding of what is meant by the phrase “rape culture.” Moreover, I hope that you are more likely to believe in its existence – and to want to fight for its eradication.

Because now that you know what it is, you can work to find ways to prevent it.