I Talk About Him

I Talk About Him, Because am Proud Of Him. 

I Talk about Him, Because he Deserves to be Remembered. 

I Talk about him, Because even though He is Not Physically with me, he is never far away from my Mind. 

I Talk About him, Because He is a Part Of Me, A Part that i could never ignore or Disown. 

I Talk About Him Because I Still Love Him and I Will always Love Him. 

If You’re Searching Yourself For A Purpose, Ask Yourself These Questions!

We are all searching ourselves for a purpose, a career or a life that really matter. So if you feel stuck, trapped or hopeless—if you want more—ask yourself these five questions to get your life back on track:

1. Why am I here?

Seriously.

Right now, whatever coffee shop, classroom, cubicle or conference room you might be sitting in, why are you here?

  • What brought me to this moment?
  • What strengths, personality, creativity and talent do I have at my disposal?
  • Without placing blame or making some sort of rationalization, what the heck am I doing with my life today?

2. What is my story?

Stories are powerful, regardless of whether they are true. They give you a narrative to live by and life lessons to pass on, that shape the person you are becoming.

One of the reasons you might be experiencing unrest and frustration in life today is that you might not have a better story shaping your life.

You need a heroic narrative. A story that calls out your best and highest self.

A big part of this is learning how to let go of past guilt and regret, and to start living your life with conviction. You cannot change your past, but you can create a better future. Today is a new day with new opportunities, so start living a better story.  Live with a deeper sense of responsibility with the amazing talents, genius and strengths you have been given.

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3. Who do I need?

Investing in the right relationships and surrounding yourself with the right people is crucial to your success. It sounds a bit harsh, but there are some necessary endings that you need to embrace—friends who are not really friends, people who suck the life out of you.

  • Who in my life is holding me back from becoming my best self?
  • Who do I need to ask for help?
  • Do I have any honest voices in my life?

4. What is at stake?

  • What upsets me about the world today?
  • What frustrates me?
  • What problem do I want to solve?

These are clues to your calling. Windows into your soul. Why? What frustrates you reveals what you care about most. The only way to live life with passion is to discover, name and fight for what matters most to you.

5. How can I help?

In layman’s terms, your life can impact and influence others in meaningful ways. Even small ways. A smile, a hug, a thank you, a high-five, eye contact, an email or kind word. All energy transferring in the form of hope from you to another. How beautiful is that?

But you have to start. Commit to serve someone else in some small way. Give more than you take. Listen more than you talk. Write an email or letter of encouragement to someone who has helped you. Get your focus off yourself and onto others.

I guarantee you will surprise yourself with how good it feels to fight for something that matters. For someone who needs your help.

WHY SOCIETY ALWAYS BLAME A GIRL?

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Because in our Indian society, since childhood

  • boys are allowed to do what they want but girls are not even not allowed to study.
  • They are taught that they can do anything they want but girls can’t but the reality is that girls are leading in various sectors.
  • Everyone is taught that in indian society is male dominating society but it is not.
  • Boys are taught that girls are weak and they can treat them however they like.
  • People in India worship goddess like KALI, DURGA, GANGA etc but they don’t worship in reality. They see them as a material which is used and thrown away.
  • Boys can go anywhere with their friends or girlfriends but girls are not allowed as this will ruin family reputation.
  • When a rape is there, everyone blame girls for being outside home till late night and her dress but no one will say a word to boys that what they did was wrong.
  • Mentality of people is so bad that they judge a girl by her cloths, her friends. If a girl is with 4–5 friend(boys) she will be seen as a slut. But if a boy is with many girls he will be a stud.
  • None of family member teach their boy child to respect girl. They don’t teach them that they too have a sister who is a girl.
  • New generation is so obsessed with drinking, smoking and sex that they don’t even think about anybody’s life. They give importance to materialistic things, not to their life and family.
  • Everyone is adopting western culture but they are not adopting the broad minded thinking that western people have.

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It takes courage to take your stand when someone is blaming you wrongly.

It takes you a feeling that it’s okay to be frowned, beaten, or looked down upon but not being blamed wrongly.

It’s not that always someone’s blaming the woman.

Sometimes some idiot bigwig even takes sides with the actual proven rapists saying “Ladke hai.. Galti Ho jati hai inse”..

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How can we expect Her to speak out then!
And until she speaks her side, she’d remain an easy victim.. 😦

Not Enough Time

The time we had, Dad, Wasn’t nearly enough

To pack in an entire Lifetime of love.

There are so many questions.
That I need answers to,
But now that you’re gone
There’s no way to ask you.

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But there are still photos

To remember you by,

Each time I look at them,

I still want to cry.

They say grief is easier

to bear as time goes by,

But they doesn’t stop me

from wondering why?

Why my dear, sweet dad

Was taken so soon,

When he was my guiding star,

My sun and my moon.

There are no answers

To a question like this,

So I’ll cherish your memory,

And mourn the years we’ll miss.

 

“A daughter needs a dad to be the

standard against which she sill judge

all men.”

Mother Hood Is Priceless <3

This Is Priceless.  Motherhood Is Most beautiful thing to women. 

This is what Mothers go Through… Stretchmarks, Pain, Shapeless body, Flappy Tummy.

Some of us use Push Up Bras to look sexy but when we go to the bathroom, we look towards our naked body and we see the real ME, that we have an ability to reproduce a Human Being.

Women, Please Love your Body, Love your Inner Soul.

Men, Learn to love your wife. You will never understand the pain which a woman goes through during her motherhood days. All that a women needs are love and no cheat towards her love. Some Men don’t even care whether she has eaten or not, whereas some men spend more on their girlfriends abundantly forgetting that they have a nursing wife at home.

Some men even have guts to say that she is not a woman because she gave birth to their child through CS. Whereas the women who go through CS, has taken a lot of pains, she has to deny her food for next 3 days.  She can’t have proper food for a month.

Men, no matter the method of Delivery be, treat your women has Queen.

For a mother and a child to come out ALIVE is by God’s Grace.

Learn to Respect Women. 

 

“THE NATURAL STATE OF MOTHERHOOD IS UNSELFISHNESS”

 

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Mother: You are more Precious than Jewels

She gave life. She is a wife.
She is a mother and she is a friend.
She is a sister, a survivor ’til the end.

Appreciate her, we don’t dare.
Ask her worries, we don’t care.
Wipe away her tears, they are invisible as air.

She works, cooks, and cleans.
She laughs, helps comfort, and hides her pain.
When you struggle, she pulls you through.

All this is her, and what do we do?
Complain and create a mess,
Provide stress and leave her feeling depressed,
Push her away and ignore her advice,
Tell her she is nothing without thinking twice.

She swallows her pride, put her feelings aside.
Does as you need in order for you to be free.
Ignores your ignorance and tolerates your flaws.
You call her names, but
She answers with pride, dignity, and a complete loss of self.
You call her nothing.
I call her Strong, Smart, Sensual, Caring, Giving, Surviving, Tolerant and powerful.
I call her WOMAN!

 “If you can’t go back to your mother’s womb, you’d better learn to be a good fighter.”
― Anchee Min, Red Azalea

I am the Catalayst to my own Happiness

NO,

I don’t Care what you think about me, my Life, My Decisions, or How I Look.

Because Its My Life, My Choices, My Mistakes and My Lessons.

Mind your own Problems Before you talk About Mine,

Because My Life is not your story to tell.

And So now i Will do What’s Best for ME!!!