Yes, I Am a Girl, why cant I Talk about Bleeding? I Thought of sharing it with you all.
In my upbringing, I learnt that periods should happen in secret. But I don’t hesitate to write this.
Do you mind me talking about this thoughts here?
Between my legs, I feel the pain at that time of the month. It hurts me, it sucks most of the times.
I think men should know how hard it is to face this pain. Why should boys have all the fun?
I am not allowed to enter the Pooja room .
I am not allowed to go to the kitchen.
I am not allowed to lay down the bed.
I am not allowed to attend any function.
I am not allowed to touch the vessels.
Because there is a belief that I am bleeding and so I am Impure.
I cant even walk, Because the pain makes me suffer a lot.
I couldn’t do anything, I cant help my mom to do household work and So i Realized how does she manages to do things. In the name of bleeding, I can escape from this all stuff. She cant escape from her duties which society has allotted her in the name of wife and mother. She has to play all the roles. She is a working women too. There is no option of taking leave from such duties in the name of Menstrual.
So boys, tell me have you ever thought about the pain of bleeding which your mother, sister , daughter, wife goes through? You would have never because it is not your cup of tea.
You can blame the nature. Yes its our fate, we cant do anything about it, but you can help us.
We feel Jealous of boys because they will never undergo from such pain.
We are seen as the object of this world.
But those are not the reasons ashamed for having the body that bleeds.
My bleeding is not an embarrassment.
My bleeding is not a foul.
But its Actually Cool.