Women always asked for it

Women always asked for it

Women always asked for it.

If she is harassed or abused, the blame is always put on the woman and not the man, the perpetrator of the crime.

Victim blaming and shaming is now a widespread issue in India.

The code is clear for us.

Don’t wear this, don’t say that, dress appropriately, don’t go to a bar, don’t drink.. the rules are laid down for women, and if women don’t play by the rules, they are ‘punished.’

No woman is immune. 



Through these Points listed below, we throw light upon how women are objectified and made to feel like they aren’t humans.

  1. He forced Himself on her, Despite of her saying No. 
  2. He didn’t even knew her, but he called her an “Item”. 
  3. He leaked her Private photos and now she is too Ashamed to face anyone. 
  4. He got physical with her on their first date, ignoring her disrespect. 
  5. He commented on her post calling her “Whore” and “Slut”. 
  6. The place was crowded and he grabbed her breast at the first opportunity he got. 
  7. They were arguing and suddenly he slapped her. 
  8. He scanned her from head to toe in the metro.  


By somebody I Knew, 

By a Stranger on the Road, 

By a group of men in a bus.


I wrote it and erased it three times: #MeToo, #MeToo, #MeToo.

Why am I hesitating? I feel ashamed in some way.

Maybe because it occurs to me that by being silent all this time, I have somehow been complicit in the harassment inflicted on others.


If all the women who have been sexually harassed or assaulted wrote “MeToo” as a status.

We might give people a sense of magnitude of the problem. 


Check Your Sources!

Check Your Sources!

Come Sit Next to me and then ask how I Feel 

Don’t just write Whats up and expect me to reveal. 

I don’t do small talks, soul to soul is my way

I bare my heart out, I don’t like games they play.  

If you say that you care, then stay till I am Fine

Read my whole book, Not just a chapter or line. 

I don’t let too many people, sit pretty to my heart

But when I make you Guest, Please play your Part. 


Friendship That Can be Unhealthy.

Friendship That Can be Unhealthy.

When you’ve outgrown your clothes, you toss them. But what about your friends?

Every person has at least one or two buddies that, sooner or later, will go the way of the cargo shorts. It’s time to move on.

And that’s okay. While research has shown that positive relationships both improve your health and extend your life, negative relationships have just the opposite effect. Simply stressful or frustrating friendships can be unhealthy.  

So how do you know when it’s time to throw out a friendship? Here are the nine types of friends you might have to dump—and how to let them down easy.


Hes about one thing and one thing only: getting laid.

You loved having him around during your single years, but he’s still gunning for new “conquests” every weekend, and your wife thinks he’s an ass. 

Keep or cut: “Your friend isn’t a bad guy. He’s simply at a different phase of life than you are,” says Irene Levine.



He watches every game—pro or college—in all four major sports . . . plus soccer.

You’re still passionate about sports, and you enjoy catching the big games, but you’d rather spend the majority of your free time with your partner and kids.

Keep or cut: Meet up every so often to watch a game together. As far as his constant stream of sports-related emails, calls, and texts, Levine recommends ignoring them. He’ll get the message.

If that doesn’t work? Let him go. 


He’s a nice guy, but he just can’t seem to find the right person. He also feels the need to talk to you about it constantly.

You feel bad that you havent successfully set him up, but after endless introductions and nights spent as a wing man, theres only so much you can do.

Keep or cut: Forget subtlety. Tell your friend that life is about more than landing the right woman, and he needs to find some other hobbies in order to be appealing to another person.


He’s a great friend, and everybody loves him. He’s charismatic and charming, and he’s with a fantastic, funny woman. Your girlfriend gets along great with his partner, but there’s one small problem: He’s a shameless, habitual two-timer.

You’ve seen him cheat on his girl—or at least try to—every time you’re out on the town without your partners, and you know one of these days he’s going to get you in a lot of trouble. (Men arent the only ones who are unfaithful. 

Keep or cut: If you don’t stop hanging out with this guy, you’re going to pay the price.  Even if you’re not with him when he cheats, you’ll be smeared by association, he adds.


You’ve known this guy since high school, and most of the time it feels like he’s still back there. He constantly references funny stuff that happened to you “that one time sophomore year,” or “when you asked that older guy to buy you beer.”

Keep or cut: “Don’t let him drag his past into your present”. You’re either moving forward or falling behind, he says.

“Friendships can’t be sustained only on old memories,” 

“If you like him, plan some new adventures together.”

Why cant I Talk about Bleeding?

Why cant I Talk about Bleeding?

Yes, I Am a Girl, why cant I Talk about Bleeding? I Thought of sharing it with you all. 

In my upbringing, I learnt that periods should happen in secret. But I don’t hesitate to write this. 

Do you mind me talking about this thoughts here?

Between my legs, I feel the pain at that time of the month. It hurts me, it sucks most of the times. 

I think men should know how hard it is to face this pain.  Why should boys have all the fun? 


I am not allowed to enter the Pooja room .

I am not allowed to go to the kitchen. 

I am not allowed to lay down the bed. 

I am not allowed to attend any function. 

I am not allowed to touch the vessels. 

Because there is a belief that I am bleeding and so I am Impure. 

I cant even walk, Because the pain makes me suffer a lot. 

I couldn’t do anything, I cant help my mom to do household work and So i Realized how does she manages to do things. In the name of bleeding, I can escape from this all stuff. She cant escape from her duties which society has allotted her in the name of wife and mother. She has to play all the roles. She is a working women too. There is no option of taking leave from such duties in the name of Menstrual. 

So boys, tell me have you ever thought about the pain of bleeding which your mother, sister , daughter, wife goes through? You would have never because it is not your cup of tea. 

You can blame the nature. Yes its our fate, we cant do anything about it, but you can help us. 

We feel Jealous of boys  because they will never undergo from such pain. 

We are seen as the object of this world. 

But those are not the reasons ashamed for having the body that bleeds. 

My bleeding is not an embarrassment.

My bleeding is not a foul. 

But its Actually Cool. 

Libra And Leo Connection

Libra And Leo Connection



When a Leo and a Libra come together, they don’t need much time to build up a healthy sex life. With Leo’s confidence, and Libra’s sexuality, they tend to inspire each other to become great lovers when together. Their sex life is usually filled with respect, and they feel free to try out new things with one another. If they found their relationship on a strong mutual attraction, they could enjoy a satisfying sex life for a very long time.

Leo doesn’t mind being seen and Libra is a sign that represents the public eye. Although this says something about their sexual preferences too, they will usually be well behaved in public. As soon as any restrictions show up, they will have to play out their passionate scenarios at any time, and in any place in which they get a chance to be alone if only for a minute. Libra is a sign of Saturn’s exaltation and it is easy for them to wait and be rational, but with passionate Leo they find it hard to stay in control.




It is not that often for Leo and Libra to share a relationship filled with mutual trust. The problem here arises from their understanding of the Sun, for it rules Leo and falls in Libra. To add to that, Leo is a sign of Neptune’s fall and Libra can often sense the dishonesty behind Leo’s confident act, if there is any. The problem lies in the fact that they both like to be seen, but in an entirely different way. Leo wants to show everything they’ve got and Libra wants to get approval from other people. None of them understands the other, and this can become a reason to get jealous and mistrustful. If they wish to remain in a trusting relationship, they need to find approval and a suitable audience in each other to begin with. Only then will they be able to move on and look for these things in other people without arising suspicion.



When it comes to the rational side of their relationship, Leo and Libra have a very nice way to support each other’s personalities and communicate. The sex-tile between their Suns usually makes it possible for them to respect each other, and help each other build stronger personalities, free of judgment of any kind. Their elements of Fire and Air fit perfectly and there is a passionate approach of Leo for every idea of Libra. Their communication is fast and inspiring, although sometimes hard to ground through constructive ideas if Libra doesn’t rely on its cold and rational relationship with Saturn.

The problem arises if Libra feels any sort of jealousy at their Leo partner for their sometimes unfounded confidence and that inner sense of security. The only way for Libra to learn how to feel confident as well is to accept this ability of Leo as the best part of their beautiful character. If Libra starts judging Leo, making assumptions on how their partner should behave but doesn’t, their mutual respect will fade and they will both miss the point of their relationship.




These two signs represent our loving relationships and marriage, and when you look at this couple, you will see that their love for one another is real, obvious, shown and leading them in a certain direction. They will never end up in a relationship with no future, and their belief in love will move them towards marriage, children and growing old together, if only they share enough trust and love. Ruled by the Sun and by Venus, these signs represent one of the basic planetary cycles of love that is often connected to periods of eight years. If they stay together longer than that, they might as well walk down the aisle and have a bunch of kids.




Nothing holds greater value for Leo than someone’s strong personality and their own pride and heroism. Libra, on the other hand, values justice and one’s ability to be the hero – something they often think they lack. They are finely compatible when it comes to matters of the Sun and they complement each other well in a way that helps them both learn about expressing themselves and their abilities and strengths. The problem with this couple is in their relationship toward Saturn, and while Leo represents its detriment, Libra exalts it. Although this can be a lesson to be learned, the challenge of responsibility they take on unequally can tear them apart. Leo needs to get serious and realize what their responsibility is to fit into the thing Libra values most – reliability and tact.



There is a strange similarity in the speed of these signs. Leo is a Fire sign and as such it shouldn’t be slow as a Water sign or and Earth sign. Libra belongs to the element of Air, and it should be faster than any other element. But when you look at these two signs, you will see that Leo would like to sleep 20 hours per day, and Libra needs to think about everything twice and carefully choose activities and words they want to say. This doesn’t sound that fast, does it? If they share the same interests, they could have an endless field of possibilities for shared activities. They will mostly enjoy “red carpet” events and the fancy gatherings where they can both show one another to the world.

The biggest problem in their choice of activities lies in Libra’s indecisive nature that Leo simply doesn’t understand, and usually doesn’t have patience for. This is where they might give in to the temptation to “help” them decide, taking over the wheel and deciding instead of them. This can lead to mutual lack of respect, even though it seems like a little thing that no one would even notice. They need to give each other time, and stay as independent as possible.



If you want to sum up the relationship between a Leo and a Libra, you have to understand that their bond involves the beautiful and challenging dignities of Saturn and the Sun. They have a lot to learn from each other, and the main goal of their relationship is to reach the point of shared respect and responsibility in a perfect balance of power. It will sometimes be hard for them to overcome the need for competing, trying to determine who is a better, smarter or a more capable person. Even if they don’t, their relationship will be something to enjoy and show off in public.

Stop feeding your mind

Stop feeding your mind


Stop Feeding your mind with phases like,

“No expectations, No Disappointments”

“Don’t Fall in love again”

“Nothing lasts forever”.

Because My Love, 

Before you fall in love again, You will have expectations because you love!

You will give too much because of love.

So its unrealistic and false hope we give to ourselves just because we are hurt. 

Instead, We need to learn to move out of such love because when it doesn’t last, don’t fall because you fall lonely, don’t give much of loosing yourself. 

We are all humans living and craving for human attention, we can’t do without it. 

So don’t let your temporary period decide your future.